The Power of your words.
Words have energy and power with the ability to help, to heal, to hinder, to hurt, to harm, to humiliate, and to humble.
“Be mindful when it comes to your words. A string of some that don't mean much to you, may stick with someone else for a lifetime." -Rachel Wolchin
No matter who you are, no matter what you do, never underestimate the impact your words can have on others. ALWAYS be mindful of interactions with people. YOU can be the difference in someones day...make it a positive difference.
Let me give you an example….I bet you still rememeber something horrible a kid said to you at school or someone said. The person who said it however…probably still can’t. For the person uttering them a string of words can be meaningless…but for the receiver it can be life changing.
This is why it’s so important to be mindful of what is coming out of your mouth.
Especially in anger. We all know how hard it is to stop outselves when we feel angry..but here is something that might help you
A Japenese scientist named Dr. Emoto gained international fame from the film “What the Bleep Do We Know?!” which praised his experiments on the cellular structure of water.
During his experiments he seperated 100 petri dishes of water and he praised half…and shouted at and scoled the other half. The results were remarkable with the praised water forming beautiful shapes and the scoled half becoming jagged and ugly.
In another experiment, Masaru Emoto tested the power of spoken words. He placed two cups of cooked white rice in two separate mason jars and fixed the lids in place, labeling one jar “Thank You” and the other, “You Fool.” The jars were left in a school classroom, and the kids were instructed to speak the words on the labels to the corresponding jars twice a day. After 30 days, the rice in the “you fool jar” that had been constantly insulted was now a black modly mess. The rice in the jar that was thanked was just the same as it was 30 days earlier.
There is no doubt words are very powerful. So why am I talking about rice and water? Well consider that our bodies are about 65% water…up to 78% when we are babies.
How many times a day do we throw our words away?
We say things like, “I hate my hair,” “I’m so stupid,” “I’m such a idiot.”
Without stopping to think tha these words bring a negative energy to us and affect us on a physical level. Ancient scriptures tell us that life and death are in the power of the tongue. Words can start wars, cause harm and break souls…but they can also heal wounds, be uplifting and change lives.
So THINK before you speak
Is it True? Is it Helpful, Is it Inspiring, is it Necessary and is it Kind.
"Words have energy and power with the ability to help, to heal, to hinder, to hurt, to harm, to humiliate, and to humble." -Yehuda Berg
Practice makes better.
You didn’t fail, you learned and next time you will be better.
You need to be kinder to yourself when you are learning a new skill.
It’s like a teaching a child to read or write for the first time. They don’t bring home their first project from school and you go “Woooww that’s terrible! I can hardly read that! You should give up now little dude”
Of course not! You say, “That’s amazing, I can’t believe you wrote that! You are getting better and better watch time, keep going buddy”
Why not afford yourself the same grace when learning a new skill?
Sooo you messed up the first time, and second time that’s ok! You didn’t fail, you learned and next time you will be better.
You can do it!
Practise your new skills every day.
If you want to get paid more than a lawyer or a doctor does then you need to invest the time to study too. To hone your craft.
It’s like a student doctor going nahhh I don’t learn that I will just start with surgery.
As Eric Worre said “ If you don’t study, if you don’t practise you are going out there like a blunt instrument on the world”
Are you willing to invest in you? For things to change YOU have to change, for things to get better YOU have to get better.
Your income will never exceed your personal growth or your investment in yourself.
Personal growth and development will make you better, stronger, wiser!
If you have no time…when turn your car into a drive time university. There are spaces and pockets in our everyday which we can use to make things better.
If you have no time now…invest more of it…so that in the future you can become free of its constraints.
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